Happy Valentines Day!

Happy Valentines Day everyone. Suggestions for fun kinky things to do this year!!

1. Go to dinner with your hubby and make him wear no underwear. Then whisper in his ear all the dirty, kinky things you will do to him when you get home. Then send him to the bathroom (with a time limit of course)!!

2. Get a Red candle and a White candle (paraffin is preferred) and drip hot wax onto his nipples in the shape of hearts.

3. Get a Valentines day balloon, make sure it has a candy heart weight. Then take some pink or red rope or twine and tie up your partners cock and balls. Take the candy heart weight and tie it to his balls and have him do a little dance for you.

4. Go to an adult bookstore and buy some dirty candy hearts. Pick out all the ones you like, then play poker. At the end, make your partner perform any tasks you have won on his candy hearts.

5. Get a heart shaped riding crop and spank him (wherever your heart desires) the number of years you have been together. Times each year by 5.

6. Make your partner kneel on the floor blindfolded. Tell him to stay there until you release him. Go get your hottest fetish or sexy outfit on. Come out and have him feel each part of your body and make him guess what you are wearing. For every mistake he makes, he has to make you cum that many times before he is allowed release. Spice it up even more, times that # by 5 (or 10, or 20 or whatever).

7. Have your partner give you a nice bubble bath, with wine and candles. If you would like company, make him kneel outside the tub and chat with you. Have him wash your body and hair, if you are really daring have him shave you. He should dry you off when you are done and then give you a nice massage with some massage oil or your favorite lotion. Have him do all of this naked with a nice red bow tied around his cock. If you prefer peace a quiet, do not allow him to speak (gags work good when they can't control themselves.)

8. Watch your favorite chick flick while you cuddle with your sub. Have him serve you crackers, cheese, fruit and wine (naked of course).

9. Give your man a nice, sexy strip tease. Make him wear his chastity belt or tie his cock and balls up where his entire member is encased in rope. Handcuff his hands behind his back to make it even hotter.

10. Finally, tie your partner to the bed spread eagle and get every toy you have out and play. Make sure he is blindfolded so he doesn't know what you will use next. If you are feeling really generous, allow him to cum, after hours of teasing. Put a condom on him and then once he has cum, take the condom put it onto a dildo and make him suck his own cum. Cut a small hole in the end of the condom after you have put it onto the dildo. If you want to watch the cum drip onto his tongue, put the dildo just above his mouth and make him stick his tongue out. It will slowly drip onto his tongue.

As always, have him thank you for allowing him to be your play toy. Whatever you do, have fun. What is life without some fun???

She finally did it - MsRika wrote a book!!

It is finally here. MsRika, a lifestyle Female Dominant, who is one of the wisest women I have ever known, has released a book. I have mentioned her website several times as an invaluable resource to the new Femdom, but a book will surely be a resource every Femdom will want in her library.

This does not only go for the women in this lifestyle, but for the men too. Her special insight into the submissive males mind is extraordinary. I hope this book is read by every person, male or female, that wants to learn more about the D/s lifestyle. I have already ordered my copy and I will post again once I have read it. I am very excited!!

Just a side note here - I am in no way affiliated or profiting from MsRika's book. She is simply a woman I admire greatly and I firmly believe she has much to offer Femdom lifestyle couples. When I was rediscovering the 24/7 D/s lifestyle, her website and advice was what I found. By far, her vast experience and real life application of the principles of a Femdom lifestyle, are what a novice Female Dominant should learn.

So, with that said, here is the link to purchase her book. http://www.lulu.com/browse/preview.php?fCID=1923165 It is available through lulu.com. I do hope you read her book and join her message board (http://msrika.com/phpBB2/). She replies personally to most messages, and always replies to direct messages posted to her. I will be taking a break from my counseling services and website, so I will be spending most of my time reading my favorite blogs and interacting on my favorite message boards. I hope to chat with my long lost friends in the next few weeks!! I have some posts that I have been meaning to write but haven't had the time. I am glad to be back to the basics!!!!

Kisses,
MrsClaudia

The Carrara Belt is here - Finally!! (I am so excited)

Well it finally happened. The Carrara Belt arrived last week. I was like a kid in a candy shop. The box arrived and we immediately took it upstairs and ripped the box open. The contraption probably weighs 10#'s, which is a lot when you are going to wear it on your body. The waist part is lined in a soft, foam material. The actual front is solid metal and it fits like a glove.

When it was first put on my darling, we couldn't figure out how to keep it locked. It kept unlocking and finally I took it and "snap" the lock was secure! My hubby tried to wiggle out of it but there was no use. I made him wear it the first time for almost 3 hours. It rubbed around the waist and in the crotch, but he said it was surprisingly more comfortable then he had thought. It will definitely take a little getting use to, but it will work just fine. I am already teasing him that the time has come where he can say goodbye to his cock!!! At any moment I can decide that he will never touch or see his penis again, and I can make it happen! Talk about POWER!!!!

I am including some pictures of the device from different angles and with different attachments. I bought the attachable dildo and a locking metal plate for the ass. All the parts are in the pictures.

Front View of the Carrara Belt:

Side View of the Carrara Belt:

Inside the Carrara Belt:

Attachments I got:

The Dildo attached for sex while locked away!

I think you get the idea!! This is by far the most secure belt I have ever seen! It is not for everyone, but for those Chastity enthusiasts that want 100% security, this is the belt that can make it happen!!

I also had a comment by cb6kguy about the security of the CB3000 that is a great idea to fix the problem of men being able to pull out! Instructions on making the CB3000 secure so you can't pull out are in my comment section here. Since there is no way my darling can stay in this device 24/7 forever, I am going to utilize the security feature this person suggested for the CB3000. I have looked at it and it seems like it will work.

I will post how things are going and how well the belt is working. Obviously this belt isn't for everyone but for us, I think it is exactly what I have been looking for. It isn't for the faint of heart, but then again, nothing I seem to do is. Enjoy the pictures and post your comments. Come on guys, let me hear what you think. Good, Bad or indifferent!!!!