Monday, July 16, 2007

To cuckold or not to cuckold?? Decisions, decisions!!

Lately I have been fantasizing more and more about cuckolding my darling hubby. It is not that I don't love having sex with my husband or that I want to have sex with another man. For me, that is not what is so arousing about cuckolding. What I find totally and utterly arousing is the forcing aspect of cuckolding. See, I wouldn't be the type of Wife that had her sub get her ready for a date and then leave him locked in a cage while I was off having fantastic sex with someone else. Oh no! I would have him front and center, getting up close and personal in the action. The whole point of cuckolding to me would be the utter humiliation and complete control of the act. Forcing him to be tied up to a chair, gagged and forced to look me in the eye while I was enjoying some young, hot stud. But my attraction to this activity goes further than that.


I, like my fellow blogger Catwoman, have had a long standing fantasy of doing a forced Bi scene on my subby. I want to take the forced bi scene a little further and actually make my sub participate in my sexual adventure with another. I want to use him as my little fluffer and then force him to be tied to the end of the bed so he is right there as close to the action as possible. Then once the young stud is ready to cum, use my subby as the cum catcher. What makes this even more delectable is that my darling is not in the least bit bi-curious. He has no fantasies about having any kind of sex with another man. He does love to be forced to do pretty much anything and I will use this little kink of his to it's fullest!!

In reading about cuckolding on the internet, I have noticed that most of the bulls are just regular guys or Dom's themselves. I know there is no right or wrong way to do this if I choose to cuckold my hubby, but I am looking to have my bull a submissive too. The perfect cuckolding experience for me would be another single submissive male who I am also forcing to do dirty, nasty things in order to have sex with me. I would find a nice, handsome, heterosexual guy who I can mind fuck too. He would also be a little homophobic and would not have any real fantasies about being with another man. I want the battle in his mind to be real and I want him to have to fight with himself when I force him to beg me for his cock to be sucked by another man. YUMMY!!

How HOT would it be to have my subby tied to a chair in the corner, being forced to watch his wife dominate her lover, taunting and teasing him, until he begged me to let my husband suck his cock! Then turn my attention on my chair bound darling, and taunt and tease him until he is begging to suck my lovers cock. Like I said in my "Tease and Denial" post, you can get a man to promise anything, and I mean anything, when he wants to cum and his orgasmic fate in is your hands!


Here is a totally FUCKING hot picture. I hope you all like it. And for all you prudes that are offended by pornographic images I have this to say: "How the hell can you practice FemDom or anything kinky, and yet be offended by porn?? Put away your prejudice and open up your mind! You might even find it totally HOT!!"


OK, here you go!!




Told you, pretty hot huh? I know it could be potentially disastrous to our marriage if the cuckolding thing was to backfire. I have had many good friends that were swingers and none of them are still married. They are all divorced!! As unbelievably hot as it might sound, I will have to make sure my marriage, and the bond we have as a D/s couple, is strong enough to handle bringing a third person into the relationship. I would never make cuckolding a regular part of my marriage, but every once in a while I think all it would do is deepen the control I have over my husband. Once I have implemented real time chastity, coupled with long term tease and denial, cuckolding is the next logical place my desires will go. When you get into the reality of this desire it gets a little more complicated. Living in the times we live in, we have all kinds of things to worry about. Safe sex is one of them. Can I really live out this to its fullest when you have to worry about STD's and AIDS?? Is it realistic to require testing on any potential partners? It has been 13 years since I have had to worry about diseases. I guess I will worry about that when it closer to becoming a reality.


I know there are a few FemDom's that practice this in their marriages and relationships. I would love to hear from you on the benefits and pitfalls of bringing this into your relationship. Cuckolding is still a ways away from becoming any kind of a reality in my life, but it is on the horizon. I can feel it in my bones!!

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Some people do it and love it. Some do it and get divorced. You see some guys don't know how they really feel about until after it happens. Then it is too late.

Catwomanslair said...

Hot hot hot! I would love to keep in touch with you about the practice of cuckolding. I love everything you laid out as far as how a scene would go.

My situation is a little different. Given the opportunity, I would love to have a forced bi scene with my pet and another guy. But alas, forced bi is a Capital H Hard limit for him. I respect that, so I have made modifications. What has recently developed is a situation where I have my boytoy and S2c in the same room. This was pretty new and I was able to work in intense verbal humiliation. While they will have no direct contact, in the future I can see having S2c watch my new boy please me.

Bravo Lady! Looking forward to seeing things develop with you.

Catwomanslair said...

I also wanted to throw in my two cents about cuckolding and the comparison to swinging. I have had limited expereince with swinging. My take on it is that while they look similar on the surface, from my observations, I believe the dynamics are coming from a different place. I think I will have to do a post on it rather than wear out your comment section!

In short, I've observed that women in swinging situations have less power, they are often doing it to please the hubby. Or, one of them wants to swing more than the other partner.

MacCal said...

I'm a straight guy but I find your post deeply arousing. For me it is also the forced aspect of cuckolding I love. I find sexully dominant women very hot, and the idea of beig forced to do things with another sub guy for her pleasure is my ultimate fanasy. I wish there was more of this type of porn on the net, or am I just missing it???

Anonymous said...

Perfect.
I am sub guy who has the fortune of having a relationship full of love with a dominant woman. we ve read this post, cause we talk about cuckolding, but just as the way you explained in this article.
Thats a real femdom cuckolding, certainly. The woman with such demonstration of power over both subs.!!!

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